Wicked or Wonderful?

What if the Wicked One was Right?

This space is for the women who’ve always felt like the misfit, the too-much, the not-enough, the one who saw through it all — long before the world was ready.

Here’s the soul decode:

• Elphaba = The Misunderstood Oracle
  She wasn’t evil — she was awake. Her magic came from truth too bright for the system to handle.
  She didn’t fit their aesthetic (green = frequency), so they labeled her dangerous.
  Sound familiar?

• Glinda = The Performance of Light
  She played the part the system approved of: polished, palatable, safe.
  Not evil — but complicit. The friend who won’t stand beside you when truth costs too much.

• Oz = The False God
  A projection of control — smoke, mirrors, and manipulation. Power maintained through narrative, not truth.
  They needed a villain… so they created one.

• The Public = The Matrix Mirror
  First they cheer, then they condemn.
  The crowd follows noise, not knowing. They fear the one who wakes them.

The Deeper Message:

Wicked wasn’t wicked. She was awake.
This is the frequency transmission for the woman who remembers:

• Who she is

• What she came to disrupt

• And why she’ll no longer shrink to stay safe

What We’re About:

• Embodied truth and high-frequency reclamation

• Releasing the “good girl” conditioning and victim programs

• Activating spiritual sovereignty and feminine leadership

• Choosing NOW as the moment to rise, disrupt, and defy

• Experiments, transmissions, and transformation in real-time

Defying Gravity Energetics is for the woman who’s ready to stop performing, stop apologizing, and start remembering.

You were never too much. You were just too true.
Welcome home.

The Real Cost of Freedom

The Real Cost of Freedom (And Why It's the Best Deal You'll Ever Make)

Freedom.
Peace.
Union with the Divine.
They might sound priceless — yet the cost is surprisingly light.

Why?

Because what you’re asked to give in return is not something you want to keep.

You’re not being asked to give away your joy, your truth, or your essence.
You’re being invited to let go of what causes your suffering.
Your fears.
Your control.
Your need for validation.
The stories that keep you small.

Yes, sometimes it feels like a lot.
But look closely — you're paying with burdens that no longer serve you.
You're trading in limitation for liberation.
Grief for grace.
Tension for trust.
Can we even call that a cost?

The woman who is truly free knows:
Nothing outside of her can disturb her peace.
No circumstance, no opinion, no condition in this world holds power over her.
Because freedom means nothing owns you anymore.

Not the fear of what might happen.
Not the longing for what never came.
Not the weight of needing everything to be a certain way before you can rest.

If even one thing in your world has the power to steal your joy,
then that one thing controls you.
And your beautiful mind?
It will revolve around it. Obsess over it.
Shape your entire life trying to avoid or obtain it.

But here's the truth:
You were not born to revolve.
You were born to rise.

When you finally release what you're clinging to,
you don't lose — you become.

So, dear woman — let it go.
Whatever it is that binds you, belittles you, breaks your peace.
It is not worth the space in your soul.

Freedom is waiting.
Not someday. Now.
And the cost?
Only your willingness to let go of what was never really yours to carry.

Becoming Her: A Morning Practice to Step Into Your Highest Self

Every morning when I wake, before the to-do list begins, before the messages and demands of the world arrive, I ask myself one question:

"Who is the most powerful, loving, aligned version of me that I can be today?"

This question isn’t just about setting an intention—it’s about transformation. It’s a daily choice to stop living on autopilot and start living on purpose.

Science now shows us something incredible: when we observe our thoughts, our patterns, our emotional reactions—we are no longer unconsciously ruled by them. The very act of becoming aware means we’re no longer trapped by the old stories or habits that once defined us.

And that’s where the shift begins.

Because the truth is, most of what we do—how we respond, how we think, even how we feel—has been rehearsed for decades. By the time we reach our mid-thirties, nearly 95% of who we are is a set of memorized behaviors, beliefs, and emotional patterns. Like software running in the background, they quietly guide our days… unless we choose to change the program.

So the real work of becoming the woman you’re meant to be isn't just adding more “positive thinking” on top of old patterns. It’s about courageously unlearning. Unlearning the self-doubt. The guilt. The need to be everything for everyone. The quiet judgments that sneak in when we’re tired or overwhelmed.

Change is not about becoming someone new. It’s about remembering who you truly are underneath the conditioning.

So every morning, before I pour into the world, I sit in stillness.

And in that stillness, I become aware of the parts of me that I no longer want to carry forward:

• The tension in my chest that clings to yesterday's worries

• The unconscious need to prove my worth through productivity

• The quiet guilt that shows up when I dare to rest or receive

I see them. I thank them. And then, I choose again.

I choose to become the woman I am here to be.

Not the version shaped by past disappointments or societal expectations, but the version led by intuition, aligned with love, and anchored in truth.

Because when you start to notice the patterns, you reclaim your power. You begin to rewire the way you show up in the world—not through force or perfectionism, but through presence.

This is the sacred rhythm of becoming.

So I invite you, sister, to start your mornings with this same devotion.

Before the emails. Before the coffee. Before the noise.

Ask yourself:

Who am I committed to being today?
What old story am I ready to release?
What version of me is waiting to rise?

Let your life be a daily practice in remembering:
You are not your thoughts.
You are not your fear.
You are not your pain.

You are consciousness. You are love. You are whole.

And every single day, you get to begin again.