Screenshot 2025-06-03 at 7.36.43 AM.png

Changes can be challenging

I'm here to mentor you through these areas.

Health. Menopause. Relationships. Career. Finances.

Or simply daily life.

Let's talk
Close-up of a woman with blonde hair, blue eyes, and a contemplative expression outdoors.

JOY is our superpower

Let me help you reveal, cultivate, and share your special genius!

Human Design. Emotion Code. Body Code. Sound Healing. Crystal Heart Wellness. Animal Communication. Life Coaching. Germanic Healing Knowledge. Law of Attraction.

Human Design Reading to Start Your Journey
Free Human Design Chart

About Brenda

I began my journey in self-awareness while running a successful Doggie Daycare, yet beneath the “dream life” of business ownership, financial security, and love, I felt empty and unfulfilled. My search for deeper meaning led me to the University of Santa Monica, where I earned a master’s in Spiritual Psychology—and ultimately to founding a Spiritual Transformation Retreat Center in Vermont, where countless lives were profoundly shifted.

Two white horses touching foreheads on a dirt surface.
Four white horses running on a green grassy field underneath a purple blossoming tree.

Along the way, I became certified in Human Design, Emotion Code, Body Code, Sound Healing, Crystal Heart Wellness, Animal Communication, Life Coaching, Germanic Healing Knowledge, and the Law of Attraction. These tools, combined with my intuitive insight, allow me to guide others through overwhelm, depression, pain, and self-doubt into safety, freedom, and blissful confidence.

Healing isn’t one-size-fits-all. I honor your unique design and help you release the resistance holding you back so you can step into joy—the greatest superpower we have. My mission is simple: to mentor you through transformation and help you awaken to the life you came here to enJOY.

Book a Discovery Call

  • Working with Brenda completely transformed my life.

    Before we started, I felt lost and unfocused, constantly asking myself why I didn’t have what I wanted, even though I had tried so many programs on the law of attraction, spirituality, and Human Design. It felt like I was stuck in a loop—wanting, but never having.

    That became my comfort zone, something I unknowingly identified with. But Brenda helped me break that cycle. She guided me to discover not only my true purpose but also how to reconnect with my heart—not the one wounded by past hurts, and not for the sake of impressing others, but my true heart.

    Through her support, I’ve gained clarity on who I am becoming and what it feels like to be confident. I’ve stepped out of my old comfort zone and into a new, empowered version of myself. As a bonus, I’ve also overcome several physical issues that were holding me back from feeling the vitality and freedom I now experience daily. Brenda’s guidance has been life-changing!"

    ~Kathy L. 

  • The Best Thing I Ever Did for Myself

    I'd experienced quite a bit of personal loss and trauma over the past several years. I felt "closed up", like I couldn't listen with my heart anymore.

    Ever since I was a child, I wanted to visit Vermont, so the location of this retreat was ideal. This retreat offered me the chance to regain (positive) elements of myself that I thought I'd lost. My favorite aspect of the retreat was Brenda's sensitive attention to detail, without being the least bit rigid.

    I realized that I hadn't lost my ability to listen with my heart, after all. I received a much-needed reminder that simply being myself deeply honors God.

    I felt utterly pampered! Those who guided my journey were all so talented - Brenda, Felicia, and Britt all deserve nothing but praise. They were great!!!

    ~ Kim A.

  • Life-Altering Experience

    Brenda was great right from the start. Communication was easy, and she was highly responsive before booking.

    I wish I could find the words to truly define my experience. For me, it was life-changing. I started doing some self-work before arriving, but between that and the weekend with Brenda, I’m on an internal path I didn’t expect to be on and love.

    I have a calmness internally that didn't exist before my retreat.

    ~Carly F

  • The Encyclopedia of Knowledge Woven into a Personal Path of Healing

    Brenda Stoeke (a WAAF member) has woven encyclopedias of experience and background in the areas you are looking for support. She is an excellent tracker of threads and is able to weave seemingly desperate threads together to reveal the pattern beneath. From Human Design and Gene Keys to German New medicine, Emotion Code and so much more, she is definitely a grounded, no BS presence.

    ~ Delphine

  • Wonderful Experience, Get Ready for Personal Growth and Renewal!

    A retreat can really let you unplug and focus on personal growth.

    After the retreat I felt renewed, rested and like I had some personal breakthroughs that helped me better understand myself and my interactions with others.

    Brenda is really talented in Human Design, but also in combining that knowledge with many other modalities. We did daily meditations and soundbaths, walks in the woods, journal prompts and great coaching using her vast background in psychology and wellness. ~ SA